Uncontrollable recurrent thoughts/acts – Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)

Child psychologist and Counselor, Chandigarh

Uncontrollable recurrent thoughts/acts – Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)  

Spending a long time in washroom, washing hands again & again, seeking cleanliness/orderliness, checking and rechecking, indulgence in self talk are few symptoms of a personality trait that tests other’s patience and compassion. These embarrassing impulsive socially awkward behavior/actions of an individual develop an uneasy relationship between him and family, friends & colleagues. These acts cause the person significant stress and disruption in daily life. Individual suffers and struggles with the feeling of abandonment, loneliness, gap between ability & aspirations, stigma and apathy. It is the chemical imbalance in brain leads an individual experience recurring thoughts/repetitive actions, one has no control over. Generally we are ill-informed and ill-equipped to deal with these individuals in need of trust and support. Such individuals call for greater care and consideration.

Failed relationships

Child psychologist and Counselor, Chandigarh

Inner sense of rebellion at being compelled to pursue a career either under pressure from parents or one’s awareness of the need for money instead of what you are passionate about quietly builds up suppressed feelings leading to pent up anger and aggression in human being.  Firm expression of one’s needs & conviction, openly and honestly, without any inhibition, without being disrespectful & abusive avoids unwarranted accumulation of suppressed feelings & thus interpersonal conflicts. Self acceptance of one’s own emotional state & response, respect for other’s limitations, assertive communication but a pleasant approach with love remaining non-judgemental helps in avoiding withdrawal & thus failed relationships.

Life is beautiful and simple do not complicate it. Leave arrogance and reconnect with family, people and live every moment. People slip away from our lives like sand. Do not deny existence of a problem, speak up when in trouble/traumatized without being afraid of the consequences. Share your trauma/sorrows with others without inhibition, your silence & suppression of thoughts lead to anxiety, sadness & depression. Parents must listen quietly/ believe in what their child tells. They must indulge and encourage him/her to communicate more. He/She may seem quite happy, doing well but may be lonely inside struggling all alone. Seek professional help.

Child psychologist and Counselor, Chandigarh

Anxiety, depression, alcoholism, drug abuse, aggression/violence, self neglect, obsessive compulsive disorder are some of the mental illnesses/problems one lacks the capacity to handle of his own and silently suffers never ending battle with these illnesses throughout the life. The person and his/her family hesitate to admit existence and seek professional guidance/help to tackle these problems due to the stigma attached. The mistrust and doubtful integrity of society clubbed with fear of disrespect endangers the dignity of the person. Few incapable to deal with enhanced level of stress end up committing suicide causing irreparable loss to the family and society. One must start his/her day by seeking blessings of Almighty and be grateful for the beautiful life. Just remember how much blessed you are, the moment feel overwhelmed. A Professional helps one to acquire the skills and knowledge to handle the symptoms in his/her day to day activities.

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No one has the right to call a child stupid/idiotic

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No one has the right to call a child stupid/idiotic.

A child is groomed & conditioned to accept & reciprocate in a particular style as he/she grows up while witnessing interpersonal communication of people surrounding him/her. He/She is constrained to face relevant/irrelevant questions by people making the child respond in his/her acquired style accordingly. His/her response, when found weird/awkward, makes us form an opinion about his/her behavior and label him/her stupid/idiotic. Please never ever call a child stupid/idiot.     

Happily engaged child

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Happily engaged child

Spare & spend time, value his/her existence & show you care, to have an everlasting bond with your child. Discuss together and encourage child to come out with ideas/ways to make his/her learning a fun process to achieve set goal. Regularly acknowledge and recognize his/her efforts via a simple pat on the back/reward to keep the child motivated and happily engaged in learning. Make him understand that his/her evaluation is not to scare him/her but to appreciate his/her initiative. Evaluations are undertaken to communicate & validate he/she is on the right path of learning process and is happily engaged child. In the process he/she will voluntarily make extra efforts to train & develop for his/her growth.  

Blissful life- be master of own destiny.

Blissful life- be master of own destiny.

Drive away your fears, control repetitive & compulsive reaction and create a balance between mind and body. Being happy and joyful means leading a stress free life. Nature provides serene environment in which one gets the opportunity to converse with GOD in the quietness and have a Divine connect. Mind is difficult to control however emoting from heart in personal conversation with god, unburdening oneself, seeking benevolence invites divine grace.