Personal experiences do distract, the mind clear of illusions retains dignity and sensitivity.  Appreciate the reality of life and carry on by getting to the root of the problem that deprives you of feeling secure. Discipline and consistency rather than vulnerability to oscillate between hope and doubt in times of uncertainty, controls irrational sentiments affecting authenticity of efforts. Motivation and strength to keep energy level high is significant in reclaiming identity by staying focused, consistent but flexible to improve adaptability.