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| Anmol Singh-Psychologist & Counselor, Chandigarh |
Love happens naturally and the person envisions a
beautiful sincere loving relationship/partnership but after blissful courtship
for sometime witnessing absence of reciprocation & rejection in love at
some point later hurts miserably. It leads to despair and hopelessness. A person
keeps on thinking of the other, suffers from the incessant pain, is incapable
of accepting the bitter reality and is traumatised to the extent of landing up
in depression. One must deal with it head held high, do not hold self
responsible, try to distance self emotionally away from ex-partner who failed
to nurture the relationship he/she willfully got into, let him/her walk away
there is no point forcing someone emotionally withdrawn but just dragging along
to be with you, have faith you have moved one step closer to meet someone made only
for you. In such a situation one must look at the broader aspects of life i.e one’s career
& future, experiences awaiting in one’s intended travels etc. Relationship
is just one part of your life; do not let it break you up, cherish the
opportunities in store, love self, with time the pain will go & one shall
be fine & happy.
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