Experiencing hot & cold behavior of a person affects adversely. Having attention now and the next moment disdain of a person close to you, it drives you crazy having repeated thoughts thus destroying mental peace completely. One is tricked into thinking “why” and a sense of distress engulfs mental peace. Have direct conversation with the person instead of assuming things and jumping to conclusions. Rather than investing too much time in anyone seeking validation shift focus to your creative pursuits which ensures that you maintain emotional balance and it helps build confidence & self esteem.