Relationship

Relationships---We get in lot many type of relationships while growing up. They may be personal relationships or work relationships. At times we feel ourselves to be being dominated and controlled negatively by the other person. A very common example of the above negative energy, in personal & non-personal relationships, is when the other person makes you angry, compels you react & get upset. You feel helpless and being dominated. Over a period of time the other person start giving an impression that they possess an invisible and effective tool , using which, whenever they want to control you, what they should do is get angry with you and that way achieve the desired control over you. Their anger becomes a remote control. When you react you are allowing this control or allowing the other's remote control to work. It is you that chooses to allow yourself to be influenced & dominated. It is important for us to realize that we have the option to choose/reject to allow ourselves to be controlled & dominated. We can choose to express what we feel without being affected by the reaction of the others & still maintain our love, respect & good wishes for the other to maintain the healthy relationship.