Develop Healthy relationship with your child.

Develop Healthy relationship with your child.

Healthy relationship develops when one trusts the other, shows maturity and accepts the other with all his/her faults and weaknesses. Each individual has a thought process, outlook and individualistic approach to life. Conflicts and arguments are bound to happen due to the difference of opinion in an interpersonal relationship.  One needs to nurture the relationship by respecting others view point, rights and needs. Suppressed feelings lead to feeling of helplessness & frustration, aggression and anger explosion. Listen, understand and appreciate what bothers the other. Calm down, think about the repercussions of words/actions on the other as well as your own self and respond with compassion so that you do not regret later. Communicate with facts and reasoning rather than being defensive/reactive/rude to settle/sort out what bothers the other. One’s verbal and non verbal expression in a conflict/argument must be issue centric and devoid of any reference to past instances, to control damage, to bring smile on others face & make him/her feel secure.