Anmol Singh, Child Psychologist & Counselor, Chandigarh

Search for life.

In the pursuit of self discovery we aim at finding meaning of life. The need to be valued & needed is very basic to our existence and happiness. True joy is intrinsically connected to our inner self.

Shun the tendency to spend most of your time reliving & replaying memories of the past and trying to change what is impossible. Our life in caught in very small cycles where tomorrow tends to turn out similar to yesterday making us feel like we do not have the will-power, the ability to change the circumstances in our lives & destiny and get frustrated. 

The past cannot be relived & cannot be rewritten, let it go. However it is a great resource for learning & sometimes, a resource for useful information, build on it. The future is the result of what we think, feel & do today.

Our passion, conversation with & opinion of positive people creates positive circumstances in our life.   Do not feel inadequate, appreciate & celebrate the efforts & the progress you have made so far in life. No one is perfect and struggles with his/her own flaws. Just go after what matters the most in your life: be loyal, thoughtful, caring, and kind to yourself. The originality of your vision, inspiration, dedication and ability to manifest that vision with the help of people who listen, encourage and support makes you stand apart from others.