Anmol Singh-Psychologist & Counselor, Chandigarh |
Love relationship issues
A healthy relationship to
live happily side by side depends on the degree of commitment between partners.
The reality of life is two individuals join together because of similarities
but unfortunately start focusing on the differences once commit to each other. The understanding & compromises
necessitated due to different temperaments, irrespective of the deep love &
devotion for each other, adversely affects the commitment for each other. The fear
of repeat of hurt due to inadvertent mistakes of partner, insecurity on account
of developing thought of loss of identity while conforming to partner’s
expectations, intolerance exhibited towards one’s behavior, misplaced
priorities & absence of affection, attachment & appreciation by partner,
experiencing humiliation, insult or bullying by partner results in emotional
pain & disruption in trust that over the time lessens the commitment in a
healthy relationship. The counseling session with a therapist helps the
individual understand his/her thought process and anxiety associated with it to
rebuild the broken trust in order to overcome the trust deficit between
partners.
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