Everything is not hunky-dory in life, everyone goes through range of emotions, positive or negative. Mature individual does explores requisite adjustments to impress upon self, value of coexistence for growth and inspiration. Do focus the boundaries on personal level restrictive enough to affect engagement, leading to conflicts. Relive moments expressing the rivalry sentiments,  to evolve and improve upon for resolute and confident clear mindset to pursue priorities with unwavering determination.