Love self and make peace with reality. Facing criticism at some point of time in life journey is inevitable, embrace vulnerability. Extreme and unhealthy deep rooted insecurities are bound to generate unwarranted fear of loss and cement possessiveness trait. Exhibition of intolerance and jealousy to appreciation of others limits individual's much needed space for self-renewal & generates feeling of guilt, matter of deep concern, leads to mental torture, verbal or physical abuse and endless sulking.