Accept the fact that a person dares to question without realising discomfort in perceived malafide intention because of inherent behaviour conditioned by a sense of maintaining psychic security associated with sentiments. Ignore illusion, nothing remains the same forever. Life changes more than it stays the same. Impermanence and imperfection, the prerequisites of inspirational drive to experiment, experience and learn aspires to be in a ceaseless state of movement in life. The tendency to seek validation and approval is the root cause of frustration and unhappiness. Mistakes inherent to being human, traps the mind in a vicious cycle of thought process "whether not measuring up to goal" and derails an individual's aspirational track of striving to be best in life. Embrace imperfect self and choose to let go of the quest for perfection thinking no one is judging to live an interesting life.  Look with openness of mind, adopt substantive measures to restore balance by remaining silent despite provocation for a conducive environment for growth.