Awareness of discomfort and resistance struggling with problems inspires to be flexible in embracing new ways to keep in check inconsistency, disability and resentment. Revisit and re-define aim with patience & planning rather than knee jerk reaction to avoid trigger for human conflicts. Cultivating relevant competence is essential to enter the reality zone, learn from mistakes, improve perception that instills psychological barriers to sustain in the face of challenges. Partners invested in integrity, mutual interests, realisation of immediate environmental sensibilities,  understanding, optimism and common sense inevitably grow slowly and steadily.