Getting defensive is natural but self-awareness brings in real change in one’s stubbornness to prefer a perspective to grab opportunities for growth. Face challenge of defiance with persistent energy and an attitude, embodiment of incredible sensibilities, to meet evolving needs of the present moment. Individual's perspective developed while growing up cements belief about the right way to live life and struggle silently in compliance to this belief. Excessive struggle to live with that belief compels to start thinking that something is inherently wrong with self and leads to anxiety & depression. Despite achieving envisaged success & security, still feels worthless thinking lacks in values to indulge in self envision. Acceptance of the way of doing things nips in bud the feelings of failure and unworthiness, encouraging individuals to gain more confidence in self skills and abilities to find solutions.