Tuesday, 22 January 2019

Anmol Singh-Psychologist & Counselor, Chandigarh



Being dominant to gain respect is not advisable.

Fearing someone’s dominance is not necessarily the same as respecting him/her. Expectation of respect is natural to being human. It is normally lack of self-respect in an individual that a person seeks/demands respect from others through dominance, a form of the negative energy of fear, in the relationship. Dominance sometimes turns violent in a subtle way, harming the relationship in a big way. Others giving attention or being in awe of him/her is mistaken for being respected but the truth is it is impossible to give respect, if at the back of mind one fears him/her. The ego, an excessive attachment to one's false image, need to be recognized & no longer nourished instead respect other’s values, specialties, skills, virtues and powers to make him/her fearless, confident and capable of giving genuine respect.

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