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| Anmol Singh-Psychologist & Counselor, Chandigarh |
Conscious Decision
Generally our decisions about life are made by default and we do
what most of the people known to us are doing. Normally many options are
available to us but we don’t explore them and take conscious decisions. The choices
made may also be under pressure by family, peers & society/community at
large. But it is important that we ourselves determine what’s right for us and what
to do with our lives. It is your life. Take your own decisions. Your divergent
choice may threaten those close to you. Parents & grandparents may get confused
& defensive, friends may feel abandoned. Losing their support and a feeling
of being misunderstood may frustrate you but explaining your point of view
& reasons with gentleness, openness, and tolerance remaining calm,
persistent & consistent and clear in communication shall win back those who
truly love you. They will stand by & support your choices.
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