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Anmol Singh-Psychologist & Counselor, Chandigarh

Those in relationship are facing issues, and those who are not, are craving to be in one, while some are happily single. I wonder as to why this occurs. The answer is very simple. We’re at war with our own thoughts. Our mind says something but our heart wants something different. We’re not satisfied. We’re not happy. We’re not at peace.

Why does it happen that people are not satisfied, drift away, feel disrespected, misused & hurt, often get abused and break up. Let me lay it out for you in simple terms. The true essence of love has lost its way. People don’t accept the way others are. Everybody is busy in making his/her choices & opinions. They go after perfection. Everyone is after the outer beauty. There is no regard for what’s inside. Remind you, inner beauty never fades and stays till the end. People forget that there is no shortcut to happiness. Everything takes time. It is all about how you perceive. If it is unhealthy, it shall remain the same unless you change it. Acceptance comes from within. What your soul wants, eventually you will get it. But you have to keep patience. That doesn’t give you a right to go around and break hearts. Remember a broken heart takes time to heal. Step into someone else’s shoes and feel their pain. Only then you will realize the importance of safeguarding the basic foundation of relationship.

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