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Anmol Singh-Psychologist & Counselor, Chandigarh

There are many people who are in a stable relationship and going stronger every day. They’re content and happy with their partners. Some are together for years and still hold the same charm. Some are newbie, trying to build a future together fighting against all odds keeping faith in each other and prospering. These are the stories we must look for. There is a lot we can learn from them.

What makes them so passionate to continue with their relationship? The answer can be simply expressed in the form of two words i.e. loyalty and understanding, the basis of any healthy relationship. The relationship is nurtured and flourishes because of these two words spoken by their actions and the commitment. If it’s not there, it wouldn’t work. Honest couples often know what to do to keep the spark in their relation and it’s a mutual effort by both, giving surprises, comforting each other, being trustworthy, being a good listener & understanding each other’s needs, sincere discussions & resolving issues together, sparing time for each other, providing lots of care & unconditional love and most importantly mutual respect. These ingredients build a forever kind of relationship. If all these things are taken seriously, it makes it perfect. Two people coming together in a bond for longevity, makes a relationship blissful. 

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