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| Anmol Singh-Psychologist & Counselor, Chandigarh |
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family relation, bond of blood entrusted by the almighty at birth, is sacred
and a special moment for family members. The day you take birth, your journey
starts. It is called consanguinity or blood relation, the property of being
from the same kinship as another person. It is the quality of being descendent
from the same ancestor as another person. A family consists of a mother,
father, you and possibly your siblings all under one roof. Each has their own
way of life with different priorities but share a connection which keeps them
close. That belongingness, that love, that affection, that care is what makes a
family. A family relation is driven by a common force of togetherness. The time
spent is precious and lasts forever. It goes on for generations. The family
wheel is run by supporting each other through good and bad times. It is
necessary for everyone in the family to understand what situations are and how
to deal with them. That’s how the relation will grow stronger. There should be
no time or space for comparison, bad mouthing, provocation, anger, sadness,
jealousy, ego or even competition for that matter. Everyone should have a
loving family where there is positivity and harmony. Negative thoughts or
actions can derail the connection. An openness to different opinions and to
learning new ideas should be welcomed and appreciated. Family is considered to
be the guiding light for a person who has lost directions. They help you to get
back on track. This can be achieved by positive reinforcing. A happy family is
a family having deep sense of meaning and purpose in their lives. Unconditional
love is the secret to a happy family. And with this it leads to building up a
strong and create a protective relation.
to be contd....
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